Thursday, March 13, 2008

Illusion Of The First Time: Keys To Giving A Truly “Live” Performance















by Bill Lampton Ph.D.

Championship Communication
http://www.championshipcommunication.com

When an actor performs in a play for the 10th, 100th or 1,000th time, he or she must create the illusion that this is the first time the actor has said these words, used these gestures and facial expressions or thought these thoughts.

Superlative actors create this response, no matter how many times they repeat what they have done previously.


Put Your Best Face Forward

by Bill Lampton Ph.D.

Championship Communication
http://www.championshipcommunication.com

Blink--a recent book by Malcolm Gladwell--cites research to support the concept that a person's face can do more than mirror the individual's mood. . .it can create a mood for that individual.

That is, if you start your day with a defeated look, before long you will become downhearted, even angry. This, of course, reverses the most commonly accepted thought pattern, that the mood comes first, then the facial response. The moral: Set the tone for your day with a happy, confident face, and good things are likely to follow.


Muzzling the Motor Mouths: Silence Workplace Windbags





















by Bill Lampton Ph.D.

Championship Communication
http://www.championshipcommunication.com

Nonstop talkers surround us. They appear to have no concept of time, as they ramble on endlessly--following their request to "talk to you for a minute." You want to treat them courteously, yet demonstrate that you need privacy to finish your work.

During my twenty-three years in management, I dealt with blabbermouths frequently, so for the last ten years I have advised clients on how to silence the workplace windbags.

Here are my suggestions for muzzling the motor mouths: